When Kindness Meets Accountability: A Conversation with a Reverend About Queer Allyship
I get a lot of hate online, but a recent message hit differently. Well-meaning people took action without asking me first, taking away my agency. This is a story about allyship, accountability, and what it really means to walk the walk.
Who’s Really Confused?
Society loves its labels—but what happens when we don’t fit? This post explores the power of self-definition, the struggle of being seen, and why we know ourselves better than anyone else ever could.
Bishop Mariann Budde and the Hypocrisy of Modern Christianity
Whether it’s 2SLGBTQIA+ rights, immigrant justice, or basic human dignity, Budde calls out the hypocrisy of those who use the Bible as a weapon instead of a guide. If your faith makes you cruel, maybe it’s time to re-read the Book.
The Legacy of Mr. Dressup: How a Canadian Classic Quietly Taught Us About Belonging
Mr. Dressup quietly introduced queer representation to Canadian kids through Casey, a gender-neutral puppet, and Beverly Glenn-Copeland, a trans musician. Learn why this mattered then—and why it still matters today.
Rainbow Washing: All the Colors, None of the Support
Rainbow washing happens when companies use 2SLGBTQIA+ imagery to profit off Pride without actually supporting the community. This blog breaks down how to spot performative allyship, the stats behind corporate hypocrisy, and how to support brands that give back.
Q&A: Ignore the Haters? No, I Keep an Eye on Them
"Ignore the haters" is often touted as sound advice, but for marginalized individuals, it's not that simple. This piece delves into the realities of facing discrimination and why staying vigilant is crucial for survival.
We’re Queer, We’re Here—And We’ve Always Been Here
Queer identities have existed across religious, scientific, and cultural contexts throughout history. This article explores the enduring presence and recognition of queer individuals in various societies.
The Flawed Lesson of Sameness
The notion that "we're all the same" can inadvertently erase individual experiences and identities. This discussion highlights the importance of acknowledging and celebrating our differences to foster genuine belonging.
The Day My Mom Pulled the Ultimate Popple Betrayal
Childhood memories often come with unexpected lessons. This personal story recounts a young obsession with Popples and a mother's surprising twist, offering insights into expectations and understanding.
Never Trust Anyone Who Says, “Don’t Tell Your Parents”
Trust and transparency are foundational in relationships with children. This piece emphasizes the importance of open communication and the dangers of secrecy imposed by adults.
Can You Define “Woman”? Let’s Try.
The definition of "woman" varies across cultures and contexts. This article explores the complexities and nuances of gender identity, challenging simplistic notions.
Kids Understand More Than You Think
Children often grasp concepts of identity and acceptance more readily than adults. This discussion sheds light on the intuitive understanding kids have about diversity and inclusion.
What Teachers Really Do: Lessons in Kindness, Dignity, and Empathy
Educators play pivotal roles beyond academics. This piece highlights the profound impact teachers have in imparting values of kindness, dignity, and empathy to their students.
Carbon Hating: The Flawed Science of “They’ll Dig You Up and Know”
Arguments using skeletal remains to define gender are scientifically unfounded. This article debunks such claims and emphasizes the importance of understanding gender beyond bones.
We Didn’t Steal the Rainbow—You Stole It From Us
The rainbow flag is a symbol of pride and identity for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. This piece addresses misconceptions about its origins and significance.
Why There’s No “Straight Pride” Flag—And Why the Pride Flag Matters
The Pride flag represents the struggles and victories of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. This article explains its importance and why a "Straight Pride" flag is unnecessary.
Bathroom Bans Won’t Just Hurt Trans People—They’ll Hurt You Too
Legislation targeting bathroom access affects more than just the trans community. This discussion explores the broader implications of such bans on society.
Q&A: How I Deal with Negativity - Purpose, Boundaries, and Confidence
Navigating negativity requires intentional strategies. This piece shares personal approaches to maintaining well-being amidst criticism and adversity.
The Closet: A Place of Shame or Safety? The History of “Coming Out”
Even today, people throw around the phrase “go back in the closet” as an insult. The implication is clear: queerness should be hidden, erased, or silenced. It’s rooted in the belief that being 2SLGBTQIA+ is something shameful.
Is “Queer” a Slur? A Look at Its History and Reclamation
The word “queer” has a complicated history, once used as a slur but now reclaimed by many in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. For some, it’s a powerful, inclusive identity; for others, it still carries pain. This article explores its evolution and what it means today.